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Why no one is in love with you?

This article is going to be 100% honest with you and tell you the 5 reasons that make you alone.


5 | Your personality isn't flattering


I am sorry to say that but one of the biggest reasons for you being not loved until now is the fact that your personality is a kind of so normal and maybe lower than that. Again, I am sorry to say that. Your own personality is what matters the most to attract others. Being afraid to interact, to speak things out loud, to hesitate and shy all the time, or to be kind of annoying in a way. All of this makes your potential partner go away.

The good thing about personalities is that they can be re-shaped for the big cause. They can be re-formed as you grow up. Growing up here means dealing with other people, having hard times in life, doing what you love, or any other form of stuff that gives the human being a new aspect, a better new aspect to life.




4 | You're not so ready to be in love


People, in general, tend to be so rushed into being in love like it's a must. Well, you don't have to force it. Love is one of the most purist natural things to ever exist and if it doesn't happen naturally, don't force it. It's a spontaneous thing, and you can tell right at the spot when you're actually in love with the other person. If it's hard to tell, it isn't love.

We go through phases and stages in life. Maybe, the stage of being loved is not yet the next step. You know, being loved or being in love takes your whole time and emotions. Maybe, it's not meant for now since it will only cause you the exhaustion.




3 | You have been hurt before and you won't let that happen


Being in a relationship before and not the loving one, makes you step away from any minor chance of being in love. Your ex was so rude, so disloyal or hurtful that you just couldn't stand the idea of giving someone everything and not getting it back.




2 | You miss between dignity and taking chances


Love has nothing to do with dignity. In other words, telling someone how you feel is just okay. It doesn't make you a lower version of yourself in the next day of your confession. It doesn't make you worthless. It makes you only human. A human who needed to tell what they feel.

People back off and miss on the chances that may happen if they confessed their feeling to the other person. Little did they know that they are winning either way. If it was a "yes", you win. If it was a "no", you can now move on. If it was "Idk", you better keep trying one more time and prove to the other person that you can make their world better.




1 | You simply didn't find the right person


This is the most important person in why you are not in a relationship.

Imagine that: you have certain pros and cons. You have goods and bads. You listen to a certain kind of music. You dress in a certain style. You do things in your own way. You hate things in your own way, You prefer some people over other ones. There's another person out there who loves everything you love and hates everything you hate. Yes, that's right. This person exists. It just happened that you both weren't in the same place, time, and probably never had the chance to talk.