Here's your key to be more confident in your own self

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If you have confidence in yourself, you own the world. It's the kind of trait that makes you do things other people never dare to do. You trust in yourself. You always think you're worth it. You're a big deal. Nothing can beat a person who knows their worth.

Fake it until you make it works for many people out there, but how about the rest of us who didn't find this "life-hack" a useful one? The Scroll Feed brought to you the key to be more confident.

THE CLASSIC ASPECT OF THE MATTER

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It's true that we the 'fake it til you make it' may not work out for many but you gotta try it first. Live in the confidence zone. Be there, even if you're actually not. People can't tell the difference anyway.

TIME TRAVEL TO THE PAST

Just like the Flash traveled back in time to fix stuff or to review things, you should go back to the past. We find it useful to go back in time and see what went wrong. Where and when was the big mess? and what broke us the most? this will give you a glimpse of your whole life. It's like your earlier version is being studied to avoid the mess that could happen in the future. You're basically saving your future self by comparing the current things to the past. People tell you to never go back to the past and just leave it there but that's not true. We learn from mistakes and mistakes make us weaker and less confident in ourselves. The lesser the mistakes, the better chances you're getting more confident and trust in yourself.

DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY

Being happy gives you the confidence you need. Even 20% of happiness can boost your confidence. Do what makes you alive. Do stuff that makes your day better. If staring at a wall for 4 hours makes your day, do it. Live in your comfort zone for a while and make sure to get the advantage of every little bit out of it, so that when you go out to the challenge you can face it accordingly.

FIND YOUR PASSION AND GET BUSY WITH IT

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They say 'find your passion and let it kill you'. This is 'partly' true in our case. Finding your passion and working hard on it and maybe gaining money out of it is totally a confidence booster. Even belonging to certain groups (spiritual, cultural, sports or political groups) can make a difference in yourself. You tend to believe in yourself under a good cause. Get busy as well. This makes it less from you to even overthink stuff in your life.

FIND PEOPLE TO ADORE

Finding a person to adore can lead to boost your trust in yourself even if that person is a fictional character from a TV show. Thomas Shelby is a big example of the good kind of ego to stick to. Following such people will eventually lead you to be motivated. Motivation leads to a good cause which leads to big confidence.

Being in a good company is another way to boos yourself's confidence. Those who are surrounded by successful people get to follow their track and those who are friends or mates with confident people will also be confident and gain the trait.

BE ELEGANT, DO ELEGANCE

To gain your own trust and the belief in yourself, you gotta do what's worth that. Being elegant on daily basis can confirm that. Being elegant makes it harder for others to put you down. Elegance here is both: mentally and physically. You need to dress nice, to talk fluently, to have a good thoughtful mind and to behalf like you own the world. It's already yours if you believe it.
Emma Watson is the biggest example of elegance. She has beauty and brains. She had the money, yet she decided to go on in life and get a bachelor's degree in English Literature. She worked hard and still is. Elegance isn't necessary to be beautiful or handsome. It's just the way you act and react to stuff that happens around you. You can always choose not to be classy and elegant but you're mostly gonna miss on the chance of being confident.